Before I knew I was trans, I got into cosplay. At first, it didn’t even occur to me that I … More
When I started transitioning, it was freightening, but it was also joyful. I’d been numb for so long, but starting to accept myself brought colour back to the world. And then the people around me started grieving for what was bringing me joy.
When someone comes out as trans, trans nonbinary, or nonbinary, it’s important to react the right way. But what exactly does that mean?
There’s a lot about my own personal journey with gender that has been horrible. There have been times I almost didn’t make it. There has been family lost, fights, hateful comments, and discrimination. Those are the struggles, and they do matter. But there has been so much great as well…