Before I knew I was trans, I got into cosplay. At first, it didn’t even occur to me that I … More
Don’t Grieve Me
When I started transitioning, it was freightening, but it was also joyful. I’d been numb for so long, but starting to accept myself brought colour back to the world. And then the people around me started grieving for what was bringing me joy.
Someone’s Told You They’re Trans and/or Nonbinary: Now What?
When someone comes out as trans, trans nonbinary, or nonbinary, it’s important to react the right way. But what exactly does that mean?
To many, the end of year holidays are a time of celebration and joy. But there are a lot of people for whom the holidays are something else entirely.
I am Asexual
It took me a long time to accept that I’m asexual. I’ve ruined several relationships through my denial, and forced myself to do things I didn’t want to because I felt I ought to want to do those things. I wanted to fix something that was never broken, and hurt myself in the process…
The Joys of Being Trans
There’s a lot about my own personal journey with gender that has been horrible. There have been times I almost didn’t make it. There has been family lost, fights, hateful comments, and discrimination. Those are the struggles, and they do matter. But there has been so much great as well…